Why the fucking fuck can’t people just speak straight???

I mean, why the “Pushes” and “Pulls”??? Aint it easier to just say, clearly and openly “Dude, I dont want to be with you anymore”?

I’ll never understand people that cannot speak plain and directly… what do they fear?

III.b. The False Pull

When the person with the larger CD leverages the imbalance to manipulate his or her partner and gratify a wider ego deficiency. While interpreted as genuine affection by the starved partner, this is really rooted in resentment and frustration.

Example: The girlfriend has met someone else and wants very much to start a relationship, but she knows she can never live with herself if she breaks the boyfriend’s heart, so, almost out of spite, she begins tending to his every need.